I am hugely against naming a day for women.
I am
hugely against celebrating womanhood for a day.
I am hugely against women’s day
being more hyped than men’s day.
Just like I am hugely against ladies special
trains and how men are not allowed to sit in ladies seats in buses, but women
are allowed vice versa.
I am hugely against women claiming advantages just for
the sake of being women.
I am hugely against feminists seeking justice through
ways that only make us look like asking for sympathy, and mostly attention.
Just
like I am hugely against sex without consent, I am against women throwing looks
at every man as if they are all molesters.
I am hugely against violence against
women, just like I am hugely against men being laughed at when they cry.
I am
hugely against marital rape, just like I am against little boys being molested
by their female tutors.
I am amazed how a women saying ‘all men are dogs’ is
not an issue, but god forbid a guy says ‘all women are bitches.’; might land
him in jail, with a few feminists turning up naked, few candle marches and what
not.
I am amazed how fathers are always the less-talked upon, less-thanked to people,
and it is always the mothers. Yes, well mothers carry you for nine long months,
almost push their damn life out while pushing you out of their womb, and always
has the most to contribute in your growing up, and obviously loves you unconditionally.
But that does not mean fathers are not important. And just because there are
cases where fathers are torturous and leave the family, does not mean ‘all
fathers are dogs’, right? Does not mean mothers don’t do the same.
I understand how girls go through the painful
menstrual cycle, and how they are being victimized by rape, and how since the beginning
of civilization, women have been looked to as an object of sex, does not mean
men haven’t changed. Does not mean we still look at them as if they are stuck
in the same Adam mindset, while we Eve’s have moved on to modernization.
Because someday, we all are going to be with another
men, maybe husband, maybe son, or maybe our father, and we will see them going
through it. Imagine our loved ones getting inflicted by things that we
consciously or unconsciously do to other men?
To get my stand right, this is not about disrespecting
mothers, this is not about portraying women in a light that may not be
accepted, this is all about how men are not supposed to be subdued. If women
claim equality, let’s please start with giving up the ladies seats.
If we call ourselves 'Men', let's just start being equal to 'Men'.
